No sponsored rankings Updated May 2026
Feeld logo Feeld
vs
Her logo Her

Feeld vs Her: Which Wins in 2026?

Feeld for ENM regardless of orientation. Her for queer women + non-binary specifically.

Published: Reviewed by: DateScout Editorial Team

Feeld for ENM/kink across orientations; Her for queer women + non-binary

Feeld vs Her — key takeaways

  • Feeld for ENM/kink across orientations; Her for queer women + non-binary
  • Feeld: Open, kink, ENM. Her: LBTQ+ women + non-binary.
  • Our ratings — Feeld 4.0/5 vs Her 4.3/5.
  • Our overall pick: Feeld.

Head-to-Head Comparison

Criterion Feeld Her
User base 4M+ registered 12M+ registered
Founded 2014 2013
HQ London, UK San Francisco, CA
Rating 4.0/5 4.3/5
Best for Open, kink, ENM LBTQ+ women + non-binary
Free features Profile, basic discovery, limited messag Swipe, match, message, community feed, e
Platforms iOS, Android iOS, Android

These apps overlap for queer women interested in ENM but otherwise serve different demographics. Feeld is ENM-default across orientations. Her is queer-women + non-binary default with monogamy emphasis.

For queer women who are also ENM-curious, both work but serve different communities. Many use both.

Feeld has broader user base across orientations; Her is more focused on queer-women community.

Which one should you pick?

Feeld logo

Choose Feeld if…

  • You want ENM / open
  • You want kink-curious
  • You want LGBTQ+
Try Feeld ↗
Her logo

Choose Her if…

  • You want queer women
  • You want non-binary
  • You want LGBTQ+ events
Try Her ↗

Our Pick

Feeld

Feeld for ENM identity. Her for queer-women identity.

Read full review → Try Feeld free ↗

Feeld vs Her — FAQ

Which is better, Feeld or Her?
Feeld for ENM regardless of orientation. Her for queer women + non-binary specifically. Our overall pick is Feeld, but the right choice depends on your goal — see the breakdown above.
Is Feeld or Her higher rated?
Her rates higher at 4.3/5 vs Feeld at 4.0/5 in our hands-on testing across four US cities.
Can I use both Feeld and Her?
Yes — many daters run both. A common setup is one as your primary app and the other as a secondary for extra reach. Avoid spreading across more than two apps, which dilutes effort and lowers results on each.
What's the simplest way to choose between Feeld and Her?
Feeld for ENM identity. Her for queer-women identity.

Sources & References

  1. US Census Bureau — American Community Survey — 2026
  2. CDC — National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) — 2026
  3. Rosenfeld et al. (2019), PNAS — How Couples Meet (NIH/PMC) — 2019
  4. Stanford — How Couples Meet and Stay Together (HCMST) — 2020
  5. Bowling Green State University — National Center for Family & Marriage Research — 2026
  6. Pew Research Center — Online Dating in America — 2023
  7. DateScout in-house testing · 4 metros, 30+ days per app

More comparisons featuring Feeld or Her

vs

Hinge vs Feeld

Hinge is for monogamy-default daters. Feeld is for ENM, polyamorous, kink-curious, couples seeking thirds. They don't overlap much.

Compare now →
vs

Hinge vs Her

Hinge is mixed-orientation default. Her is queer-women-specific with TERF moderation and community features. For queer women, Her is the clear primary.

Compare now →
vs

Tinder vs Feeld

Tinder defaults to monogamy. Feeld defaults to open. If you're curious about ENM, polyamory, or just non-traditional structures, Feeld is the right tool.

Compare now →
vs

Tinder vs Her

For queer women and non-binary daters, Her is purpose-built and the better default. Tinder works but the experience is mediated by mixed-orientation defaults.

Compare now →
vs

Bumble vs Feeld

Bumble for monogamy-default. Feeld for ENM, kink, couples. They serve different relationship structures.

Compare now →
vs

Bumble vs Her

Bumble works for queer women but Her is built for them. In metros, Her wins for community + matching.

Compare now →